One patient I was working with suddenly went into hospice. He was only in there for the night and then he died suddenly. But at the same time, we had two other whānau that had passed on. So, I was pretty tied up. But that particular day I said, ‘Right, no. I’m staying home and having a rest.’ Because you know, you’ve got to look after yourself too eh? And I believe in looking after myself. So, I ring up to [the funeral directors]. I said, ‘Look we’ve got, you know, Joe Bloggs [alias name Whaea Linda has given] has just passed away. Do you think he can go and go and bless, you know hikoi te tapu and bless the room there for us Brother?’ And he goes, ‘Yes.’
The whānau asked me to organise [it]. And that’s another thing that we can’t do is promote any of our Funeral Directors. The family had chosen [this service], had asked me to contact [them] but I tell them to contact them. I knew that the room needed to be blessed and everything after he leaves the house. Yeah, I got them to do it. Yeah, then I got them to bless the house too because I wasn’t able, because our kaumātua were tied up with tangi. Well, yeah, I do but I couldn’t go up the house to bless the house either. So, they did it. ‘Oh, the house has been blessed.’ They’re wonderful, yeah. So, we all roll together now because they’ve been here since September last year… and we just all get on like a house on fire