We had a family that came in… the [dying māuiui] lady was only young, but she had like children [aged under 15]. We had some family come in. The lady didn’t have a lot of family. We try to find out from people who stay long enough [information] to build a genogram, so where she belonged… Anyway, she passed, but during her illness, her sickness and her stay with us, I noticed the cooks and the nurses would be taking these kiddies up and getting them food to eat because there was hardly anyone around these children. And I’m thinking, ‘Where’s the family?’
Anyway, a man would pop in, a lady would pop in - a couple and then they’d be gone. And these kids are still sitting there you know… But she was only [below kaumātua age], and she got very sick and no one knew how to contact her family. So, if I went down [I would have] said, ‘Can you please tell [me] - we need someone to contact, you know… They [children] didn’t have an adult… the children need clothes, and they need to have showers. They didn’t have an adult [with them].’ Someone brought them, but then they just left. So, we got in touch with our Social Worker at work and, you know, slowly they got a phone number and they got people to come in and take the children. But, during this illness the hospice workers are bringing in clothes for these kids. Feeding them… so anyway, it blew me away because everybody, and I mean everyone, looked after those kids and that was the first time I thought, ‘Oh my gosh.’